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My husband is Nigerian and I’m not he recently came to my country we are married and now I’m pregnant. I know quite a bit about culture in Nigeria as I’ve known many people there before, but something is new to me.
I may have a hard time trusting because of misunderstanding of culture but I get a feeling it may not just be that.
He talks to so many women on WhatsApp and Facebook every day and likes there pictures.
He even sometimes sends long emotional emails to his ex about moving on and when she cries he sends her emails about it being ok.
I told him to stop talking to her because he’s with me and our unborn child and not to have it affect our family…
But the thing is he chats with so many women on Facebook and what’s app and I’m so worried.
Even when he does he hides his phone and deleted chats because he says “when you see the woman calling me saying hi dear it just means they say that to everyone”.
I know everyone in Nigeria can start off there sentence with hi dear, it could mean nothing but why does he need to talk to so many women online everyday?
He said it’s rude to ignore people and if one bad word is said about him it could spread to anyone so he tries not to ignore to be nice.
I saw him chatting ardently with a young girl from his village and he was asking her a lot of questions…
I just didn’t understand why he had to be doing that and his response was “what if I want to be a politician one day”.
It just makes me never want him to go back to Nigeria because I’m so afraid one of these ladies he’s gonna meet up with and they will do something one day
I’m really afraid of being cheated on. I don’t chat with many men or entertain them.
I don’t like their pictures and don’t feel the need to chat with so many men every day. If I ignore them it’s becquse they should know I love my husband.
My main question is is it normal for Nigerian men to chat with many many women online and on WhatsApp and Facebook like their pictures and chat away Like this? Sometimes late at night too… am I being lied to or at risk of being cheated on?
Because it really feels like it. I’m already pregnant and dedicated so much time. Please this really bothers me what can I do? He won’t give up talking to them.
The thing is I don’t think his brothers are like this so why is he like that? I just don’t understand.
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