Men have a couple of attributes they find attractive in a woman and these varies from one man to the other. Women on the hand; are constantly on the lookout trying to adopt traits the world tells them they should have in order for men to find them attractive.

These philosophies may abound, but I think it would be unrealistic to be who you are not just because you want a man to find you attractive, because in my opinion, men will always find women who are content and comfortable in their own skin more attractive and appealing than any shape society tries to make them fit into.

A good place to start is to stay true to you with some good moral standards to show for it. These character qualities am about to share are universally acceptable traits every woman should possess whether or not men should cherish you, and I think they would do you more good than harm in the long run.

Being Passionate: Whether it is a job, family or a hobby; men want a woman who is passionate. Being passionate about something illustrates your ability to be responsible for something. A woman without a drive in life is often an eye sore to most men, they might not tell you this to your face but that’s simply one thing he may be uncomfortable with in you.

Confidence: With the numerous pressures society places on today’s woman; looks, beauty, shape, affluence and all, it is nice to see a woman who recognize she is awesomevb being exactly who she is. Always having to reassure a woman after they ask you if they are pretty really isn’t fun for anyone. Know you are amazing, and let the world know you know it!

Independence: There is always something appealing about a person who can take care of his/herself. It portrays content, strength, determination, initiative, hardwork and many other good character traits.  That is to say that in a world that often loves to see us fail! Men are seeking to build a future with a woman who doesn’t constantly need support.

Expressing own views: Some boys feel threatened by women who are confident enough to express what they think, but not real men- because they welcome it! This is one attribute I have seen most mature men cherish in women. And when you ask them why, they simply tell you ‘because she is confident of her views and opinions. Men value and seek to find a woman who is willing to express herself intellectually and rationally.

Being passionate: Whether it is a job, a hobby, or family, men want a woman who is passionate. Showing passion about something illustrates your ability and desire to care about something. Passion can consume us, but people without a passion for something are simply without.

Trust & Honesty: Men and women want honesty and trust alike in their relationships always, but even more, men want a woman who isn’t scared to be honest in every part of her life and relationship. Whether it is being honest with him or herself, men admire a woman who is comfortable enough to be honest. It breeds trust in the man in their lives.

Caring and nurturing: As you may already know, it is no news that men love to be pampered; so don’t think for a moment that it is only women who love to be pampered, because men too do like to have a woman who shows concern and is willing to provide them with comfort.

While it is unfair to generalise, this small list of good habits for the modern woman are a couple qualities the modern man expressly looks out for in a woman. Not only do these traits appeal to men, they also help to further compliment the person they are attached to.