After I ‘Disvirgined’ Her, She Changed All Of A Sudden, What Should I Do?

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I am a young guy (early 20’s) who just started dating exactly by this time last year.a girl I met on Fb .she was just the girl I ever wanted.i wouldn’t want to mention her name .lets say she goes by the name Alex.

Alex and I started dated November last year and we got admitted to the university the same year .we were pretty cool at first.until when she went to the hostel,she changed .i noticed the sudden change and asked her about it and she said she’s jux been her self.

Alex never calls me like before,never even likes my Fb pictures or anifin,rarely chat me up and this.i took it as maybe she was busy lately. Not to mention .she was a virgin and never wanted sex now until she was 22.so I never pressured her until one certain time she was wanted us to have sex by all means.

It sounded suspicious but at least I have been waiting for this day after 8 months of dating and no sex.we deflowered her and later on her character changed from bad to worst. Alex is very unappreciative no matter what I buy for her.she still says I have done nofin.

Sometimes I even send her money to take care if her mom since she have been going through a lot.she still doesn’t appreciate . I had to stop. never to mention I hear rumors of her saying she’s not dating only me but I overlooked cuz even if it were true.

Sex was not involved in it as she was a virgin. Later on Alex told me she was tired of me and I should find someone else ,I always beg her when we have issues but she hasn’t done the same before. This time she was serious about breaking up saying I don’t trust her.

Later on I heard she was a lesbian and I decided to set her up with a female friend of mine . Nd it were true,she was a lesbian.

I was scared to ask her cause I have asked before wen I noticed she doesn’t like having sex with me and always dodge the activity even if she was deflowered. She only enjoys oral sex. She still says she’s nt a sex person.

But now I was sure wat she was. So 4 days to our aniverssary wen she told me she wants to break up finally ,I told her wat I heard and gave her proof bout it nd she said that’s how she want to live her life from now.

I still love this girl but I can’t cope seeing her and not talking to her in sch .cuz we attend the same school and share the same faculty .i haven’t cheated on her before and she knows that. What do I do pls…should I beg as usual or let her go. Cuz I feel she can change.

Pls hide my identity . Thanks naijaloaded

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